Millions of men around the globe fall prey to this nasty sexual dysfunction at some time in their lives. In fact those who have never had to deal with the ill effects of ejaculation should count themselves as very fortunate men. It can sometimes be hard to figure out how different aspects of premature ejaculation can affect our mindset, specifically defining between the primary problems associated with it and the secondary problems arising from the onset of the problem.
In this article, I will take you through the primary effects of ejaculation on you and make some very real recommendations on how to tackle them in a positive and effective way.
Effects of Ejaculation #1 – Confidence Killed Off
One of the main elements that makes men who we are today is our confidence in life. Without confidence we may never have got that promotion at work, never met the partner of our dreams, or never achieved any goal that we have set ourselves in adult life. But if you have been suffering from ejaculation for any length of time, you will have the problem on your mind constantly, not just in the bedroom with your unhappy partner.
A man with no confidence is like a car with no wheels, a sailing boat with no sails. You feel incomplete and it affects the way you present yourself to others, be they your family, colleagues, or your partner. In the bedroom it is a mood killer to both you and your partner. You get to the point where you just don’t want to have sex as you know for a fact that you’re going to lose your control and come far too early.
And she is fed up with her man who can’t perform for her and is lacking in self confidence so badly that not only is it a turn off from sex, but a barrier between you both that is getting bigger as each day goes by.
Effects of Premature Ejaculation #2 – Self Esteem Slaughtered
Effects Of Ejaculation
Self esteem is tied in very closely with your levels of confidence. When your self esteem takes a serious knock, it is hard to back on your feet from that knock. If your self esteem is constantly being attacked by the negative voices in your head and the awful situation in the bedroom, then it is no wonder that your sex life has fallen into a dark pit of misery.
If you cannot escape from the black hole of self esteem destruction, then you are forever going to find it difficult, if not impossible to get back to the man that you once were.
Effects of Premature Ejaculation #3 – Sex Drive Slashed
If the first two effects of ejaculation weren’t bad enough, then this one just adds insult to injury. If you have little or no confidence in yourself and even less self esteem, is it any wonder why you just cannot bring yourself to think about having sex with your partner?
Of course not. Sex is supposed to be an activity enjoyed by two people who want to explore, pleasure, and fulfill their partners sexual needs. If you are weighed down with all the negativity going on in your head as a result from your confidence and self esteem problems then the chances are sex is going to be the last thing on your mind…
Feeling Totally Depressed Now?
As I am about to explain, these problems can seem like a cold and dark prison that is impossible to break out of, but it really doesn’t have to be this way. What you really need to get started with reversing the effects of premature ejaculation are as follows;
Confidence Building Blocks – Take your mind back to before you ever suffered from these problems with ejaculation. Your life was a happy and enjoyable experience. In order to start fighting these ejaculation effects, you need to get to the root of the problem. The point where it all started to go wrong. If you can try to remember this period in time and pinpoint what changed to start you on the course you find yourself on now. Don’t lie to yourself or try to ignore hard facts. Once you can identify the root of the problem then you can begin to fight the battle on a fairer ground in which you have the upper hand.
Self Esteem Repair – Make a point in doing some activities that you know you are good at. Maybe go fishing and catch a whopper, go bowling and hit a strike. Perhaps even take your family out for a meal or the movie theater. Whatever you do, make a point to leave your baggage at the house. The idea here is to start building your self esteem up again, not knock it further into the ground. Yes, sex is an important part of your life, but just focus on other things which you can still relate to in a positive frame of mind.