Expert Author Chris Bailey
If you really need to know how to last longer without ejaculating then you’re in the right place. I want to share with you my own personal journey over 10 years to cure my ejaculation.
It all started when I was very young. I was never a hit with the ladies so it was basically masturbation or the odd lucky lay that I could find.
One of the first things that I tried was distraction methods. I was pretty good at math so I used to do some equations while receiving oral sex! It helped but I probably improved my math more than my sexual skills!
I decided that I didn’t want to distract myself so the next thing I tried was to go slower. But man, this really was not a good idea because my women would not understand why I had slowed down. Sometimes they’d even get impatient and I didn’t really want to let them know about my problem. Sometimes they even thought that I had already ejaculated and I had to tell them that I hadn’t! Clearly this method was not going to work.
The next thing I tried was multiple positions. This was much better. My buddy had told me that woman on top facing me was much better. Actually for me, it was much worse, but I did realise that everyone is different. So I tried woman on top facing away from me and it was really good, it bought me a few extra minutes.
Then I wanted to get even more time so I tried the anesthetic sprays. Although some of them don’t work I found that there are some that definitely do work. Unfortunately, they also take away some of the pleasures of sensation of touch and warmth in your penis. I would say that these methods are definitely good, but was there anything better?
And then I got really lucky. I discovered purely by accident one day, a way to last longer without any booze, sprays or distraction. I call this my “plateauing technique”. I found a way that I would not be so obsessed with how much time I had left and was able to last as long as I wanted and then choose when I wanted to ejaculate.